Sandy began a job as an elementary school counsellor and was very eager to help. One day during recess, she noticed a boy standing by himself on the side of a playing field while the rest of the kids were enjoying a game of soccer. She approached the boy and asked if he was alright. The boy said he was. A little while later however, she noticed that the boy was in the same spot, still by himself. She approached him again and asked, "Would you like me to be your friend?" The boy hesitated for a moment, then said, "Sure," while looking at her suspiciously. Feeling she was making progress, she then asked, "Why are you standing here all by yourself?" "Because," the boy said with great exasperation, "I'm the goalie."